Hot Chicks and Attentive Dudes


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The endless phone calls, text messages, coffees, weekday lunches and dinner dates - in theory - should win her over.

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Simply put, if a woman does not get attention, she dies. Whenever one of our mates would complain about a woman playing hard to get, Shady would always say, "wait until you ignore her, you'll see how fast she'll come running". Prince Harry and Meghan to miss Prince Charles' 70th birthday concert. Those extra 5 lbs, hair extensions, botox injections, spray tans and designer outfits don't really matter at the end of the day for attracting and keeping your dream man. And, underneath that, he has to be pretty insecure about whether anyone could love him for himself if he weren't so damned good looking.

It's the rational route of course, but it's also tried and tested. Any piece of logic that a man thinks should apply generally doesn't. In fact, it's normally the exact opposite. What's quite odd is that most women say they want a man who's sweet and romantic, but the sweet guy always seems to finish last despite being the guy who pays the most attention.

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Now you're probably asking, shouldn't Mr Sweet-Romantic get the girl if he gives her the most attention? Women want attention, right? Of course they do, but they also want what they can't have. The problem is that Mr Sweet-Romantic gives her all the attention she wants, is always there and is, therefore, all too available.

She can have him whenever she wants and the fact that she can, makes him unexciting and no challenge to her. Women want a challenge, and no one can be more of a challenge than the dude sitting in the corner of the room who has paid absolutely no attention to her, while every other guy has drooled over her all night. You see, while women want attention, they don't want it from the guy willing to give it to them.

They want it from the guy who isn't giving it to them. Why this is true, I don't know. It's one of those strange things that happen in a woman's mind that I'll never understand. A colleague of mine named Shady people really called him that once demonstrated how FAT worked in reality.

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His company once hired a super-hot receptionist, Amy, who had every guy on the third floor chasing after her perfectly formed bottom. But, unlike his gaga colleagues who threw every pick-up line, retarded compliment and tactic at her, Shady ignored her.

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In fact, Shady made it his mission to talk to every woman in the building except her. It drove Amy insane because she was well aware of how hot she was and couldn't understand why Shady didn't want a piece of her.

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The longer it went on, the more irresistible Shady appeared to her, until one day, Amy confronted him in the elevator. Apparently, attractive women typically get more attention than average or lesser attractive women and when they're starved of it, Shady claims, a switch flicks in their heads that makes them go nuts for the "ignorer".

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Whenever one of our mates would complain about a woman playing hard to get, Shady would always say, "wait until you ignore her, you'll see how fast she'll come running". The unattainable is a woman's aphrodisiac. When Shady announced he was getting married, he started to get offers from women who hadn't previously given him the time of day.

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The offers were coming from everywhere: It proved one thing for us single guys: The trick is not to let her get you where she wants you.