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Was there a cover-up? As Tempe juggles multiple theories, the discovery of a strange, deadly substance in the barrel alongside the body throws everything into question. Tempe can't overlook the coincidence. Was this man using his lab chemicals for murder? Or is the explanation even more sinister?

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What other secrets lurk behind the festive veneer of Race Week? With the smash hit Bones about to enter its seventh season and in full syndication—and her most recent novel, Spider Bones, an instant New York Times bestseller—Kathy Reichs is at the top of her game. Tom Clancy's All-Star lineup is back. Jack Ryan, his son, Jack Jr. He's running for President of the United States again and thus giving up a peaceful retirement to help his country in its darkest hour.

But he doesn't anticipate the treachery of his opponent, who uses trumped up charges to attack one of Ryan's closest comrades, John Clark. Now, Clark is in a race against time and must travel the world, staying one step ahead of his adversaries, including a shadowy organization tasked to bring him in, all while trying to find who is behind this. Meanwhile, Jack Ryan, Jr. Why is a Pakistani military officer meeting with Dagestani terrorists? The answer will ultimately lead to a desperate struggle, with nothing short of the fate of the world at stake.

After writing sixteen Inspector Lynley novels, New York Times bestselling author Elizabeth George has millions of fans waiting for the next one. Inspector Thomas Lynley is mystified when he's sent undercover to investigate the death of Ian Cresswell at the request of the man's uncle, the wealthy and influential Bernard Fairclough. The death has been ruled an accidental drowning, and nothing on the surface indicates otherwise. But when Lynley enlists the help of his friends Simon and Deborah St.

James, the trio's digging soon reveals that the Fairclough clan is awash in secrets, lies, and motives. Deborah's investigation of the prime suspect-Bernard's prodigal son Nicholas, a recovering drug addict-leads her to Nicholas's wife, a woman with whom she feels a kinship, a woman as fiercely protective as she is beautiful. Lynley and Simon delve for information from the rest of the family, including the victim's bitter ex-wife and the man he left her for, and Bernard himself.

As the investigation escalates, the Fairclough family's veneer cracks, with deception and self-delusion threatening to destroy everyone from the Fairclough patriarch to Tim, the troubled son Ian left behind. He was the most powerful Sith lord who ever lived. But could he be the only one who never died? Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the Sith, so powerful and so wise that he could use the Force to influence the midi-chlorians to create life.

He had such a knowledge of the dark side that he could even keep the ones he cared about from dying. Possessing power is all he desires. Losing it is the only thing he fears. As an apprentice, he embraces the ruthless ways of the Sith. And when the time is right, he destroys his Master—but vows never to suffer the same fate. For like no other disciple of the dark side, Darth Plagueis learns to command the ultimate power.

Under the guidance of his Master, he secretly studies the ways of the Sith, while publicly rising to power in the galactic government, first as Senator, then as Chancellor, and eventually as Emperor. Darth Plagueis and Darth Sidious, Master and acolyte, target the galaxy for domination—and the Jedi Order for annihilation. But can they defy the merciless Sith tradition?

Or will the desire of one to rule supreme, and the dream of the other to live forever, sow the seeds of their destruction? Despite the tumor-shrinking medical miracle that has bought her a few years, Hazel has never been anything but terminal, her final chapter inscribed upon diagnosis. In the concluding volume of Stieg Larsson's Millennium trilogy, Lisbeth Salander lies in critical condition in a Swedish hospital, a bullet in her head. But she's fighting for her life in more ways than one: With the help of Mikael Blomkvist, she'll need to identify those in authority who have allowed the vulnerable, like herself, to suffer abuse and violence.

And, on her own, she'll seek revenge--against the man who tried to killer her and against the corrupt government institutions that nearly destroyed her life. The fate of a new nation rests in the hands of a reluctant warrior in this thrilling sixth volume in the acclaimed New York Times bestselling Saxon Tales series.

While his son, Edward, has been named his successor, there are other Saxon claimants to the throne—as well as ambitious pagan Vikings to the north. Uhtred, the Saxon-born, Viking-raised warrior, whose life seems to shadow the making of England itself, is torn between his vows to Alfred and his desire to reclaim his long-lost ancestral lands and castle in the north. Now he must make a momentous decision, one that will forever transform his life.

In her bestselling novels Kristin Hannah has plumbed the depths of friendship, the loyalty of sisters, and the secrets mothers keep. Now, in her most emotionally powerful story yet, she explores the intimate landscape of a troubled marriage with this provocative and timely portrait of a husband and wife, in love and at war. All marriages have a breaking point.

All families have wounds. All wars have a cost. Like many couples, Michael and Jolene Zarkades have to face the pressures of everyday lifechildren, careers, bills, choreseven as their twelve-year marriage is falling apart. As a mother, it agonizes Jolene to leave her family, but as a solider she has always understood the true meaning of duty.

In her letters home, she paints a rose-colored version of her life on the front lines, shielding her family from the truth. But war will change Jolene in ways that none of them could have foreseen. When tragedy strikes, Michael must face his darkest fear and fight a battle of his ownfor everything that matters to his family. At once a profoundly honest look at modern marriage and a dramatic exploration of the toll war takes on an ordinary American family, Home Front is a story of love, loss, heroism, honor, and ultimately, hope.

Set against the backdrop of the civil rights tensions and political turmoil that were transforming the South, Jean Louise's homecoming turns bittersweet when she learns disturbing truths about her close-knit family, the town, and the people dearest to her. Memories from her childhood flood back, and her values and assumptions are thrown into doubt. Here is an unforgettable novel of wisdom, humanity, passion, humor, and effortless precision—a profoundly affecting work of art that is both wonderfully evocative of another era and relevant to our own times.

Former operative Major Hector Cross must face off against a pair of lethal enemies and prevent an international catastrophe in this gripping contemporary adventure-thriller—perfect for fans of Clive Cussler, Ted Bell, and Vince Flynn—from the legendary worldwide bestselling author of Desert God and Golden Lion. One of the most formidable fighters in the world, ex-SAS warrior and former private security consultant Major Hector Cross has survived explosive tangles with depraved enemies—warlords, pirates, and arms dealers—from the Middle East to the heart of Africa.

Now, Cross must take the law into his own hands once again to stop a vengeful old enemy who has resurfaced—and hunt down a deadly new nemesis in pursuit of global domination. Co-written with internationally bestselling author Tom Cain, this exciting tale, filled with knife-edge tension, cunning global intrigue, rip-roaring action, and breathtaking adventure, demonstrates the extraordinary vision and talent of a writer with a gift for consistently delivering nonstop entertainment.

A warm, funny and acutely perceptive debut novel about four adult siblings and the fate of the shared inheritance that has shaped their choices and their lives. Every family has its problems. But even among the most troubled, the Plumb family stands out as spectacularly dysfunctional.

Years of simmering tensions finally reach a breaking point on an unseasonably cold afternoon in New York City as Melody, Beatrice, and Jack Plumb gather to confront their charismatic and reckless older brother, Leo, freshly released from rehab. Months earlier, an inebriated Leo got behind the wheel of a car with a nineteen-year-old waitress as his passenger. Melody, a wife and mother in an upscale suburb, has an unwieldy mortgage and looming college tuition for her twin teenage daughters. Jack, an antiques dealer, has secretly borrowed against the beach cottage he shares with his husband, Walker, to keep his store open.

Can Leo rescue his siblings and, by extension, the people they love? Brought together as never before, Leo, Melody, Jack, and Beatrice must grapple with old resentments, present-day truths, and the significant emotional and financial toll of the accident, as well as finally acknowledge the choices they have made in their own lives. This is a story about the power of family, the possibilities of friendship, the ways we depend upon one another and the ways we let one another down.

In this tender, entertaining, and deftly written debut, Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney brings a remarkable cast of characters to life to illuminate what money does to relationships, what happens to our ambitions over the course of time, and the fraught yet unbreakable ties we share with those we love. On a fine yet chilly morning, as she walks towards Fitzroy Square—a place of many memories—she is intercepted by Brian Huntley and Robert MacFarlane of the Secret Service. The German government has agreed to release a British subject from prison, but only if he is handed over to a family member.

But the Secret Service may have other ideas. As Julie investigates similar cases, she finds a frightening pattern…and finds herself the target of disturbing threats. The more cases Julie discovers, the more the threats escalate, until she is accused of a mercy killing of her own. To clear her name and save her career, she must track down whoever is behind these mysterious deaths From to , U.

The Pentagon has officially confirmed more than of Kyles kills the previous American record was , but it has declined to verify the astonishing total number for this book. Army soldiers, whom he protected with deadly accuracy from rooftops and stealth positions. A native Texan who learned to shoot on childhood hunting trips with his father, Kyle was a champion saddle-bronc rider prior to joining the Navy. He recorded a personal-record 2,yard kill shot outside Baghdad; in Fallujah, Kyle braved heavy fire to rescue a group of Marines trapped on a street; in Ramadi, he stared down insurgents with his pistol in close combat.

Kyle talks honestly about the pain of war—of twice being shot and experiencing the tragic deaths of two close friends. American Sniper also honors Kyles fellow warriors, who raised hell on and off the battlefield.

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And in moving first-person accounts throughout, Kyles wife, Taya, speaks openly about the strains of war on their marriage and children, as well as on Chris. Adrenaline-charged and deeply personal, American Sniper is a thrilling eyewitness account of war that only one man could tell. In this most crucial time, this leading conservative thinker explores the psychology, motivations, and history of the utopian movement, its architects, and its modern-day disciples—and how the individual and American society are being devoured by it. Levin asks, what is this utopian force that both allures a free people and destroys them?

Levin digs deep into the past and draws astoundingly relevant parallels to contemporary America. But Madeleine Hanna, dutiful English major, is writing her senior thesis on Jane Austen and George Eliot, purveyors of the marriage plot that lies at the heart of the greatest English novels. Leonard Bankhead—charismatic loner, college Darwinist, and lost Portland boy—suddenly turns up in a semiotics seminar, and soon Madeleine finds herself in a highly charged erotic and intellectual relationship with him.

Over the next year, as the members of the triangle in this amazing, spellbinding novel graduate from college and enter the real world, events force them to reevaluate everything they learned in school. And Mitchell, traveling around the world to get Madeleine out of his mind, finds himself face-to-face with ultimate questions about the meaning of life, the existence of God, and the true nature of love. Are the great love stories of the nineteenth century dead? Or can there be a new story, written for today and alive to the realities of feminism, sexual freedom, prenups, and divorce?

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With devastating wit and an abiding understanding of and affection for his characters, Jeffrey Eugenides revives the motivating energies of the Novel, while creating a story so contemporary and fresh that it reads like the intimate journal of our own lives. But Luke has other plans. Taking control of his trust fund, Luke leaves home to pursue a life of indulgence. But when his funds run out, so do his friends. Humbled, alone, and too ashamed to ask his father for help, Luke secretly takes a lowly job at one of his father's copy centers.

There he falls in love with a struggling single mother and begins to understand the greatest source of personal joy. Lost December is Richard Paul Evans's modern-day holiday version of the prodigal son, a powerful tale of redemption, hope, and the true meaning of love. Death Comes to Pemberley, by P. Their peaceful, orderly world seems almost unassailable. Elizabeth has found her footing as the chatelaine of the great house. They have two fine sons, Fitzwilliam and Charles.

And preparations are under way for their much-anticipated annual autumn ball. Then, on the eve of the ball, the patrician idyll is shattered. She stumbles out of the carriage, hysterical, shrieking that Wickham has been murdered. With shocking suddenness, Pemberley is plunged into a frightening mystery. Inspired by a lifelong passion for Austen, P. James masterfully re-creates the world of Pride and Prejudice, electrifying it with the excitement and suspense of a brilliantly crafted crime story, as only she can write it. I live in the Pendleton as surely as I live everywhere. I am the Pendleton's history and its destiny.

The building is my place of conception, my monument, my killing ground. Almost from the beginning, its grandeur has been scarred by episodes of madness, suicide, mass murder, and whispers of things far worse. But since its rechristening in the s as a luxury apartment building, the Pendleton has been at peace. But now inexplicable shadows caper across walls, security cameras relay impossible images, phantom voices mutter in strange tongues, not-quite-human figures lurk in the basement, elevators plunge into unknown depths.

With each passing hour, a terrifying certainty grows: Soon, all those within its boundaries will be engulfed by a dark tide from which few have escaped. Welcome to 77 Shadow Street. They are, of course, none of these things. Their specialties, so to speak, are quickie divorces and DUIs, with the occasional jackpot of an actual car wreck thrown in. After twenty plus years together, Oscar Finley and Wally Figg bicker like an old married couple but somehow continue to scratch out a half-decent living from their seedy bungalow offices in southwest Chicago.

And then change comes their way. More accurately, it stumbles in. David Zinc, a young but already burned-out attorney, walks away from his fast-track career at a fancy downtown firm, goes on a serious bender, and finds himself literally at the doorstep of our boutique firm. It almost seems too good to be true. What if you could change it back?

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Chris continues to be, as he has done for nearly 35 years, to be on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. For more than a decade, the author and his colleagues have been searching in South Africa's Karoo Desert for clues to this world: Richly textured with bits of her own childhood and married life with her husband, John Gregory Dunne, and daughter, Quintana Roo, this new book by Joan Didion examines her thoughts, fears, and doubts regarding having children, illness, and growing old. I would be glad to have a month off to just be home. Many of the short poems are in rhymed tetrameter or trimeter.

Following his massively successful novel Under the Dome, King sweeps readers back in time to another moment—a real life moment—when everything went wrong: And he introduces readers to a character who has the power to change the course of history. Harry escaped with a smashed leg, as evidenced by his crooked walk.

He enlists Jake on an insane—and insanely possible—mission to try to prevent the Kennedy assassination. Worse still, her seatmate never returned to the plane after the L. His killer could be anyone. And a ragtag collection of thugs and psychos, not to mention the FBI, are all looking for a photograph the dead man was supposed to be carrying. Only one other person has seen the missing photo—Stephanie Plum. With the help of an FBI sketch artist Stephanie re-creates the person in the photo.

Unfortunately the first sketch turns out to look like Tom Cruise, and the second sketch like Ashton Kutcher. Over at the bail bonds agency things are going from bad to worse. And everyone wants to know what happened in Hawaii? And all Stephanie is willing to say about her Hawaiian vacation is. For the record, I'd like to say I'm a big fan of forgiveness as long as I'm given the opportunity to get even first. A dying old man cared for by the son he pummeled mercilessly.

A lovely woman whose life is about to splinter into a thousand fragments. A professional shoplifting ring racking up millions in stolen goods. A brutal and unscrupulous gangster. A wandering husband, rich and powerful. A spoiled kid awash in gambling debt thinking he can beat the system. A lonely widower mourning the death of his lover, desperate for answers that may be worse than the pain of his loss. An elegant but ruthless businessman whose dealings are definitely outside the law: And Kinsey Millhone, whose thirty-eighth-birthday gift is a punch in the face that leaves her with two black eyes and a busted nose.

She'd believed in it once, too, back when she was eighteen. In the spring of , high school students Amanda Collier and Dawson Cole fell deeply, irrevocably in love. Though they were from opposite sides of the tracks, their love for one another seemed to defy the realities of life in the small town of Oriental, North Carolina. But as the summer of their senior year came to a close, unforeseen events would tear the young couple apart, setting them on radically divergent paths.

Now, twenty-five years later, Amanda and Dawson are summoned back to Oriental for the funeral of Tuck Hostetler, the mentor who once gave shelter to their high school romance. Neither has lived the life they imagined. As Amanda and Dawson carry out the instructions Tuck left behind for them, they realize that everything they thought they knew -- about Tuck, about themselves, and about the dreams they held dear -- was not as it seemed.

Forced to confront painful memories, the two former lovers will discover undeniable truths about the choices they have made. And in the course of a single, searing weekend, they will ask of the living, and the dead: Can love truly rewrite the past? But to Swiss-born Hugues Martin, a young, ambitious hotelier trained in the most illustrious European traditions, it is a rough diamond, tucked away on a quiet, perfectly situated Manhattan street.

But when his wife runs off with a notorious rock star, Hugues is suddenly a single parent to four-year-old Heloise—who will grow up happily regardless, amid a fascinating milieu of celebrities, socialites, politicians, world travelers, and the countless hotel employees who all adore her.

New challenges mark her way: Her hair was loose, eyes wide, blue T-shirt stark against the pale lines of arching collarbones. I felt the air leave me in a quiet rush. Not because of the way the photo captured her fleeting youth, but because of the way it highlighted the bruise. It was a photo of me. Rachel Price has just one happy memory from her childhood: It was a rare and sacred moment in her young life, one in which she finally felt safe, loved, and protected.

Rachel repeats the patterns she learned as a child and exposes her own daughter to those same destructive behaviors. Consumed by an abusive marriage, but secure in the safety of the familiar, she is too afraid to escape. Rachel accepts what her life has become, even as she makes excuses for those who keep her in a constant state of despair and regret. But then, an unexpected phone call from an old friend changes everything. While new friendships tentatively blossom, Rachel realizes that everything she once believed may be nothing but lies and misunderstandings.

But knowing the truth is not as easy as it seems. Sometimes ignorance truly is bliss. As the snow falls and the promise of Christmas redemption nears, Rachel begins to see her entire childhood in a brand-new light and must now decide what her future holds—and what her past really means. The Snow Angel is a poignant tale about family, forgiveness, and the freedom to live a future free of the past. The superstore chain PyeMart has its sights set on a Minnesota river town, but two very angry groups want to stop it: The protests don't seem to be slowing the project, though, until someone decides to take matters into his own hands.

The first bomb goes off on the top floor of PyeMart's headquarters. The second one explodes at the construction site itself. The blasts are meant to inflict maximum damage-and they do. Who's behind the bombs, and how far will they go? It's Virgil Flowers's job to find out. The America we are accustomed to is no more. Practically overnight the stock market has plummeted, hyperinflation has crippled commerce, and the fragile chains of supply and high-technology infrastructure have fallen.

The power grids are down. Brutal rioting and looting grip every major city. In this unfamiliar environment, only a handful of individuals are equipped to survive. Andrew Laine, a resourceful young U. Army officer stationed overseas in Afghanistan, wants nothing more than to return home to Bloomfield, New Mexico.

With the world in turmoil and all air and sea traffic to America suspended, Laine must rely on his own ingenuity and the help of good Samaritans to reach his family. Major Ian Doyle is a U. Air Force pilot sta-tioned in Arizona with his wife, Blanca. Their young daughter, Linda, is trapped in the North- eastern riots.

Three teenage orphans, Shadrach, Reuben, and Matthew Phelps, have no choice but to set out on their own when their orphanage closes at the beginning of the Crunch. Then there is Ignacio Garcia, the ruthless leader of the criminal gang called La Fuerza, who will stop at nothing to amass an army capable of razing the countryside. And over everything looms the threat of a provisional government, determined to take over America and destroy the freedoms upon which it was built. The world of Survivors is a terrifyingly familiar one. If everything you thought you knew suddenly fell apart, would you survive?

No announcements precede it. It is simply there, when yesterday it was not. Within the black-and-white striped canvas tents is an utterly unique experience full of breathtaking amazements. But behind the scenes, a fierce competition is underway—a duel between two young magicians, Celia and Marco, who have been trained since childhood expressly for this purpose by their mercurial instructors. Unbeknownst to them, this is a game in which only one can be left standing, and the circus is but the stage for a remarkable battle of imagination and will. Despite themselves, however, Celia and Marco tumble headfirst into love—a deep, magical love that makes the lights flicker and the room grow warm whenever they so much as brush hands.

Written in rich, seductive prose, this spell-casting novel is a feast for the senses and the heart. But that "sick" man turns out to be Lee Coburn, the man accused of murdering seven people the night before. Dangerous, desperate, and armed, he promises Honor that she and her daughter won't be hurt as long as she does everything he asks. She has no choice but to accept him at his word. But Honor soon discovers that even those close to her can't be trusted. Coburn claims that her beloved late husband possessed something extremely valuable that places Honor and her daughter in grave danger.

Coburn is there to retrieve it -- at any cost. Still mourning the loss of his cherished wife and locked in a perilous almost-romance with his deputy, Pam Tibbs, a woman many decades his junior, Hackberry feeds off the deeds of evil men to keep his own demons at bay. Ling denies having seen the victim or the perpetrators, but there is something in her steely demeanor and aristocratic beauty that compels Hackberry to return to her home again and again as the investigation unfolds. Could it be that the sheriff is so taken in by this creature who reminds him of his deceased wife that he would ignore the possibility that she is just as dangerous as the men she harbors?

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But this time he and Sheriff Holland have a common enemy. But Arrington has other plans for Stone The bizarre murder of a parish priest at a New York bondage club opens Nikki Heat? And that is just the tip of an iceberg that leads to a dark conspiracy reaching all the way to the highest level of the NYPD. But when she gets too close to the truth, Nikki finds herself disgraced, stripped of her badge, and out on her own as a target for killers, with nobody she can trust. Except maybe the one man in her life who?

In the midst of New York? New York to Dallas, by J. The number-one New York Times-bestselling author J. Robb presents an intense and terrifying new case for New York homicide cop Eve Dallas, one that will take her all the way to the city that gave her her name-and plunge her into the nightmares of her childhood. When a monster named Isaac McQueen-taken down by Eve back in her uniform days-escapes from Rikers, he has two things in mind.

One is to pick up where he left off, abducting young victims and leaving them scarred in both mind and body. The other is to get revenge on the woman who stopped him all those years ago. But after being smeared as a bigot and extremist by a radical leftist media-watchdog group, he ultimately loses his job and finds himself working in obscurity as a freelance news producer in San Francisco.

One afternoon Hatfield is on a ride-along with the SFPD bomb squad when a seemingly routine carjacking turns deadly, after police find several pounds of military-grade explosives in the jacked car. Paradise, Massachusetts, is preparing for the summer tourist season when a string of car thefts disturbs what is usually a quiet time in town. In a sudden escalation of violence, the thefts become murder, and chief of police Jesse Stone finds himself facing one of the toughest cases of his career.

Pressure from the town politicians only increases when another crime wave puts residents on edge. Jesse confronts a personal dilemma as well: When a mysterious figure from Jesse's past arrives in town, memories of his last troubled days as a cop in L. Plans for a worry-free life with his gorgeous girlfriend Katherine fill his thoughts--until he realizes that he is being hunted, and that whoever is after him won't stop until they have reclaimed the diamonds and exacted their revenge.

Trailing him is the Ghost, the world's greatest assassin, who has just pulled off his most high-profile hit: There's only one small problem: Now, the Ghost is on Bannon's trail--but so is a rival assassin who would like nothing more than to make the Ghost disappear forever. From "America's 1 storyteller" Forbes comes a high-speed, high-stakes, winner-take-all thrill ride of adrenaline-fueled suspense. He is even sponsoring one of the prime candidates-an intrepid woman named Josephine Frost-and that's where Bell, chief investigator for the Van Dorn Detective Agency, comes in.

Frost's violent-tempered husband has just killed her lover and tried to kill her, and he is bound to make another attempt. Bell has tangled with Harry Frost before; he knows that the man has made his millions leading gangs of thieves, murderers, and thugs in every city across the country. He also knows that Frost won't be only after his wife, but after Whiteway as well.

And if Bell takes the case. Frost will be after him, too. As brutal as the undead he hunted, Zacarias De La Cruz was a master executioner. Now his stark and savage journey has ended. For his brothers, Zacarias had walked to the edge of madness, but with centuries as a killing machine now left to the past and without a hunt to define him, Zacarias wonders, for the first time in his life, who he really is. The answer awaits him back home, in Peru, in the betrayal of a woman who is readying her trap, in the vengeance of an old enemy, in the inevitable consequences of a bloody family legacy-and in the deliverance of a lifemate he never could have imagined After all, why give Dare the satisfaction of knowing he can push her buttons and push her to the edge?

Complicating matters is the fact that Dare has asked Angie out not once but twice and has given her a gift of butterflies in the process. Angie has no patience for butterflies. They only lead to foolish decisions. Before Angie is to leave town, she organizes one last trip into the wilderness with a client and his guest, who wants to bag a black bear. But the adrenaline-fueled adventure turns deadly when Angie witnesses a cold-blooded murder and finds herself on the wrong side of a loaded gun.

Before the killer can tie up this attractive loose end, a bear comes crashing through the woods—changing the dark game completely. Luckily, Dare is camping nearby and hears the shots. Forced together for their very survival, Angie and Dare must confront hard feelings, a blinding storm, and a growing attraction—while being stalked by a desperate killer and a ferocious five-hundred-pound beast. And neither will stop until they reach their prey. Martin has earned international acclaim for his monumental cycle of epic fantasy.

Now the 1 New York Times bestselling author delivers the fifth book in his spellbinding landmark series--as both familiar faces and surprising new forces vie for a foothold in a fragmented empire. In the aftermath of a colossal battle, the future of the Seven Kingdoms hangs in the balance once again--beset by newly emerging threats from every direction.

In the east, Daenerys Targaryen, the last scion of House Targaryen, rules with her three dragons as queen of a city built on dust and death. But Daenerys has three times three thousand enemies, and many have set out to find her. Yet, as they gather, one young man embarks upon his own quest for the queen, with an entirely different goal in mind. To the north lies the mammoth Wall of ice and stone--a structure only as strong as those guarding it. For he has powerful foes not only within the Watch but also beyond, in the land of the creatures of ice.

And from all corners, bitter conflicts soon reignite, intimate betrayals are perpetrated, and a grand cast of outlaws and priests, soldiers and skinchangers, nobles and slaves, will face seemingly insurmountable obstacles. Some will fail, others will grow in the strength of darkness. But in a time of rising restlessness, the tides of destiny and politics will lead inevitably to the greatest dance of all. Now take a closer look at Sookie and her family, friends, enemies, adventures, and-of course-the lovers who set her world on fire Visit Bon Temps, the small Louisiana town that Sookie calls home, with a detailed map created by Charlaine herself, and learn the characteristics of the supernaturals who live there: Examine all the branches of Sookie's family tree.

And eavesdrop on the private conversations between rival vampires Eric and Bill. Also, enjoy the compelling, never-before-published novella "Small- Town Wedding," in which Sookie accompanies her shape-shifting boss, Sam, to his brother's wedding in Texas, where happily-ever-after seems very far away Exclusive interviews with True Blood creator Alan Ball and author Charlaine Harris-complied from fan questions-will satisfy your craving for all things Sookie, as will trivia questions, recipes including Caroline Bellefluer's famous chocolate cake!

Where nothing is as it seems. Behind every smile there lurks a sneer. Inside every sweet relationship there hides a broken heart. And even when facts are slowly exposed, it is no longer clear to Gamache and his team if what they've found is the truth, or simply a trick of the light. For five hundred years, the survivors of the Great Wars lived peacefully in a valley sanctuary shielded by powerful magic from the blighted and dangerous outside world.

But the enchanted barriers have crumbled, the borders have been breached by predators, and the threat of annihilation looms large once more. Sider Ament, bearer of the last black staff and its profound power, devoted his life to protecting the valley and its inhabitants—and, in his final moments, gave stewardship of the black staff to the young tracker Panterra Qu. Now the newly anointed Knight of the Word must take up the battle against evil wherever it threatens: But even these will pale beside the most harrowing menace Panterra is destined to confront—a nameless, merciless figure who wanders the devastated land on a relentless mission: Like an otherworldly collection of spectral shapes seemingly carried on random eddies of air, they wandered in a loose clutch among the still and silent mounted bears and beasts rising up on their stands, the small forest of stone pedestals holding massive books of recorded prophecy, and the evenly spaced display cases of oddities, their glass reflecting the firelight from the massive hearth at the side of the room.

Since the seven rarely used doors, the shutters on the windows down on the ground level several stories below stood open as a fearless show of invitation. They could seep through any opening, any crack, like vapor rising in the early morning from the stretches of stagnant water that lay in dark swaths through the peat barrens.

The open shutters were meant to be a declaration for all to see, including the seven, that Hannis Arc feared nothing. But revenge is not simple. As he stalks his wife's betrayers-a chase that takes him from the wild moors of Scotland to the bustling streets of New York City and the darkest bayous of Louisiana-he is also forced to dig further into Helen's past.

And he is stunned to learn that Helen may have been a collaborator in her own murder. Peeling back the layers of deception, Pendergast realizes that the conspiracy is deeper, goes back generations, and is more monstrous than he could have ever imagined-and everything he's believed, everything he's trusted, everything he's understood. When one such mission goes horribly wrong, a wave of dramatic terrorist attacks is set in motion. Simultaneously, a foreign wet work team has been sent to California. As the plots rocket to their pulse-pounding conclusion and the identities of the perpetrators are laid stunningly bare, Harvath will be left with only one means to save America.

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He quit his job, and I was fortunate enough that my boss agreed to take me back upon return. Our trip reinforced what I already knew: Our life is work, and work is our life. No other culture we witnessed felt the way we did about vacation time. We made many friends who invited us to visit them in their home countries. And it really should be longer than two weeks. But I believe this idealology is highly ingrained in our culture. Question is should it be? And you wonder why people are stressed out? Quick list of vacation days with holidays… U.

There is a formula economists use to determine this balance but we are willing to bet that is is not geared for the everyday reader. Spacing the vacation out as the U. When I arrived home, there dozens of voice mails, thousands of emails, and no one died… After 2 days back at work, the voice mails were returned and by the end of the week, the important replies made for email… and no one died, no project fell apart….

But there sure was definitely a huge amount of envious people wanting some of my time to find out where I went…. I was told the company changed their business interest while I was away, and that I was not needed anymore. I think that is the problem. At same time they are looking for themselves without knowing it. I also have no problem calling out for a quiet day at home. People keep mentioning vacations being expensive. Yes they are but my most relaxing times are when I take days off and stay home.

Play golf, fish, be outside. You dont have to spend money to relax and take a staycation!!!!! Of the 20 other rich nations in the study, only Japanese workers fared worse. The ultimate question, though, is at what cost? Activity, gross investment in venture, private equity capitalization?

Its a shame that American workers are working too hard to take advantage of all the value their productivity brings. Real US productivity is, as you say, very impressive — but as several others here state, it seems to rest on a work force that is struggling from paycheck to paycheck too scared of losing their job to take time off and enjoy their lives. Yet they are all able to live good, long lives, marry, travel, have children, have houses, eat etc. Their children go to school and they have good quality healthcare. They drive cars and wear clothes. They appear to be lacking nothing that their American cousins have.

It seems to me that American workers are putting in more hours, more days and surrendering their lives for, basically, nothing. I think I might frame it this way. There is definitely a discernible impact on productivity, but ultimately work is less important than your family life in the long-term. So, the question is, do you have the courage to accept the consequences for taking a vacation?

As far as the evidence to support my claim… of the Global are U. So, are we more productive? That is exactly the point. We talk about vacation time, and someone starts giving stats about the state of the economy or comparing the US to other countries. GDP bla bla,who cares. It is not a race to be the best at everything USA.

I feel sorry for people who are scared to enjoy life in fear of losing something. Accept the consequences,what consequences? If you think there are consequences for taking time off for vacation, that is the problem. Vacation allows for you to connect with family, better health, your happiness, less stress. I do not see the down-side to any of this and frankly, what else matters in life? Life is about doing what you love,hopefully in a positive way to the environment and society. Having a good family, health and happiness.

I can leave the ecomony and religion out of this conversation and only focus on what life should be about. Not killing ourselves at the office! Our GDP is greater but the money is not spent equally. And, his job survived, his colleagues survived—he ws a new man upon his return. I couldnt completely stay away from checking work related emails and phone calls but I will say that after the first few days I did just start checking once every few days which felt really nice.

I have 27 years of experience as a software developer and 2 degrees. I absolutely love how my attitude has changed since my layoff. I hate corporate America now more than ever! Plus- it took me 5 years to get 3 weeks vacation, and will likely take another 10 years until I can get to 4 weeks, if I ever get there. And are complete pussies at fighting for rights that most other countries workers take for granted…….

You are so correct! When can I immigrate to Australia? I would love to get on your universal healthcare system too. There are reasons why we have what we have here….. Not vice versa… Depending on your political view. You have no idea what you are talking about here, sir. Educate yourself first, before you start blabbing stuff out. Have a good day. Not to mention the melting pot of cultures… They even have ex-pat restaurants that serve some American BBQ. To the point of this post, working there was the best experience of my working life. Work hard during the day, take the train home in the evenings and only work at night if there is an absolute emergency.

My boss took off to Thailand for 3 weeks, I was amazed and a little skeptical at the thought, but everyone picked up the slack as a team and we moved our way through the current project. What is it exactly that you think we have here in America vs. Australia to make you so biased? By not seeing more of the world people nothing to compare their current existence to. My parents, for example, have never been out of this country and their attitudes are pitiful about other nations in comparison to the U.

If they only knew how much better off other people have it in some other nations. Many good points were made in reply to the original post. American needs some serious change. If you have paid vacations, take advantage of them. Or simply save up so that you can take that 3 week to 1 months vacation. This is not rocket science, and throw out the stats. A simple advice from the Netherlands: We are humans and we all need it.

Ask any psychologist or doctor. And if you take a vacation: At the office they can cope without you. The important thing is that you recover. Problem is Tom, Americans get 2 weeks if their lucky. Taking a vacation in the US is seen as some kind of sin….. I think that everybody should take their vacation seriously! Noyhing to do job grade etc. I dont realy think its related with anything but personal point of view. Wish you all a great summer and fantastic vacation! Whichever kind and period of time that works for you — enjoy it and do things you like and enjoy!

I just read it today while i took my first 1 month vacation in close to a decade of career. Someday I actually hope to be able to afford a vacation — unfortunately today I am not related to the Obama family — well, perhaps that is a good thing. Vacation is just one aspect of this. In my experience with Europeans, as soon as 5: Bollocks, I have found Americans are great pretenders in the office, they hang back just to look like they are doing it tough, when in reality the equivalent european gets it done with no fuss in the allotted time.

So where is the Euro version of Google? The Googles and Yahoos and Twitters of the world were started with a few people working hour weeks to make it happen. Europeans simply do not do that. The web part of the internet is pretty European but that is joining in with your missing the point argument here. The reality is the success of Google and Yahoos etc is great for the founding few, but this accounts for a tiny fraction of the workforce who are putting in hour weeks.

The number of Americans who are genuinely in the throws of a hour week to hit it big with the NextGreatIdea is probably about 0. The overwhelming majority are people who will never be the next Jeff Bezos but feel compelled to sacrifice their entire life to a company because everyone else is working massively long hours. People working hours per week?

I worked at a famous dotcom in San Francisco during the late 90s boom. I was a vice president, Employee No. Still, even with me working 7 days most weeks, I still rarely topped 75 hours or so in a week. I think you first need a job to take a vacation. And most of us are now running our own businesses. If I took off for a month I would be out of business.

This article is so typical of people who are out of touch with the plight of the common man. Of course they need to get serious about vacations! But good luck without a permanent, stable career first. I wish more companies placed value on vacation and holiday, and I wish the government would intervene as well.

For so many workers, there is no such thing as vacation. The few days they have off a year they need to spend running errands, going to the doctor, etc. I am lucky enough to work for a company with pretty good benefits that allow me to take time off. These are core family times; we celebrate the holidays and relax. The remainder of my time off is coupled to mini-vacations. During this time, I keep an eye on work but I tend not to get involved; my next-in-line has it under control, but I want them to know I am there to support them and always available if things get out of hand.

I spread these little vacations out throughout the year so I get some measure of down time from life every couple of months and it really helps to de-stress and untangle my brain. To those who talk about expenses, I have to again agree — point well stated. Our European counterparts like to travel; many of my colleagues from overseas take a month and holiday in other parts of Europe or even here in the US. That said, we do have some benefits they do not such as inexpensive gas and a well developed interstate roadway system. There are many ways to reduce the overhead costs of hotel accommodations and admission fees to attractions, and if you enjoy nature-based activities hiking, canoeing, photographing scenery, etc it can be even less expensive.

My current employer only gives 2 weeks vacation for the first five years of employment. I took vacation days without pay in order to take a nice long trip lat year. How is their policy an incentive to stay? This article could include Canadians as well.

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I think it is the North American mentality of hiring 1 person to do the job of 2 or 3 people. Ron, this is unlikely to change in the U. Part of this is the recent U. This visibility fails to translate to increased productivity. Finally, companies like I. Sam Palmisano really blew this when he took charge at I. Why would you hire engineers who were so bad at math that they could not run the numbers? Do you think you hired stupid engineers? It no wonder that, despite the stated intention of divisions and groups supporting each other, the person who wants the best pay adjustment and review rating is going to be out for their group first, their division second, and the company bottom line third: I have long since left I.

I pay for my maj medical costs, lame dental coverage. I accrue no sick time. I receive no holiday time off paid. I would have to take out a second mortgage on my underwater house to afford a 30 day staycation watching cable TV! My Euro colleagues enjoy their entire summers off while I bust butt. In general— in my case— just not worth it. I would be glad to have a month off to just be home. I could take up a hobby, build something. None of your staff called or checked in with him. Great self-reliance from the team but what a message from the leader of our company about.

For most of my career in the US I have been able to take at least three weeks vacation a year, although I was often made to feel guilty for doing so, especially if I took two weeks or more together. One of the reasons for the fundamental difference is that Americans identify themselves by their work. When you meet new people for the first time in the States, it will not be very long before somebody asks you what you do. No work, no way of identifying where one fits in the social hierarchy.

That same question may never come up if you were in the same circumstances in Europe or any number of countries because you can be pigeonholed by your accent, or where you are from, or even the school you went to. To those of you who say you fear loosing your job if nobody misses you while you are away… not a problem if everybody takes all the time they are allowed, as you all have to cover for each other. In fact it improves productivity because you are all cross trained and the work will get done even if a team member is out for an extended period of time for whatever reason, planed or unexpected.

No guilt, no shame. I started taking December off a few years ago. What you can do is try to increase that by taking more trips per year. Quit analyzing it and just take the time off! You will not regret it. Fearing vacation is one element. We fear if we are gone too long, we will be replaced. Also, anyone getting a full time job with benefits is lucky. Many companies only offer 1 week vacation a year. That time is used for family doctor visits, doctor appointments and so on.

Forget time off for vacation, I lost my job to being out sic. After working at Supermicro for a year with no time off, I got sick and was out of the office for two weeks. Within days, I was promptly laid off. My work cell phone was disconnected. My paycheck was taken out of my bank account!

I definitely work harder after having been on a long, relaxing and adventurous vacation. That makes me happier and do my job better. It also makes me an interesting person, more fun to talk to and makes me stand out in a competitive world. I think its a cultural thing in North America. People take a week or two, max. While a month off is probably not.

Employees who take vacations have more to contribute when they return to the office than if they had never left. More often than not, new experiences breed new ideas — whether on vacation in some exotic location or simply having free time to do whatever you like. I believe this culture in America is a direct reflection of upper management expecting this out of their employees.

Or perhaps we are too lazy to vacation. Being at work means being told what you have to do…being on vacation requires self-direction, and that can be hard. I trust my team. But, I do not think the US would be a super power and as strong and economic force in the world without a strong cultural work ethic. Americans have been hard working in good times and hard times. Personal success comes from personally contributing value. If there are interdependencies in the business process or value chain that break down because a planned vacation, that is because of poor planning, poor communication or a bad process design.

I wish we could have vacation time like this in America. This would be a. I took a three-week vacation the year before I retired. While I was away, my boss born in Europe took over my main project and completely rearranged it, changing my goals and those of my team without consultation. When I returned, he berated me for my work ethic, saying that three weeks is too long to be away, and threatened to demote me.

I turned in my early retirement papers as soon as I was eligible. Here in American, paid time-off is still an expense. As long as the worker and his benefits are considered expenses, companies will minimize vacation time to what the industry, government, and society mandate. Employee are considered replaceable parts. Most people take a week and a few days off here and there, but few take more than that. While Europeans might be less richer, they eat better, take more vacation, spend more time with family and friends. I think its a pity that Americans wait until retirement age in order to travel and enjoy life.

I am an American living in the UK and I was shocked when everyone started taking holiday time… I have clients who are spending 8 weeks away this summer and colleagues taking 5 consecutive weeks off. I am a part time contracted employee that gets paid by the hour based on the number of clients I see and I still get paid-time-off at my job. I have been at my part time job for almost 8 months and I have already accrued 10 days of paid holiday time. Not to mention I can take as much unpaid time off that I want. My husband works part time at a pub for hourly wages and he also gets paid time off even though he only works 2 days a week.

I completely agree with this article, this is a uniquely American behavior. It is healthy to get completely away and well as have the confidence in your co-workers etc to do the job while you are away. We can learn from this. Turn of the lights in your head. When you leave for a vacation…Leave your computer at work, and lock the door behind you.

There was no rollover of unused days at the end of the year. Putting in 11 hour days made me very productive. I never check personal email at work. When I finally went home at the end of the day, I was exhausted. But my manager would call my nights and weekends. My manager cited my poor work ethic as a reason. After a full year of 55 hour weeks with no overtime, I got sick. I was promptly laid off. Within days my cellphone was disconnected. They even took my paycheck back out of my bank account.

The sad fact is I was not allowed to take it. It has been challenging to grow my career in this economic environment. Liked the post but wish you had provided support for the question posed. Aside from the argument about American greed, the leaner operating structure of US companies which often functionally prohibits long vacations means that when US companies face revenue contraction, they are more prepared to weather the storm.

Conversely, rich benefits and strict work limitations make it nearly impossible for businesses in Europe to adjust to austere times. Form a company, notarize merger documents, call a work council meeting to announce a RIF — its impossible. Europe has been doing it forever, offering weeks holidays and encouraging people to take them all at once.

Canada is also much better it offering holidays and not making employees feel guilty for taking the time they need and are entitled to. It is called work-life balance. The US should learn from these countries. Ask yourself this question. What can really go wrong if I take an extra week off? Whatever you fear will happen, will be waiting for you when you get back, no matter how long you are gone. Relax and enjoy life! And their vacation may be as short as one week in a year! I wish that I had the wisdom and financial security to deal with that situation that way. When my mom became terminal last year I had only been at my company two months, and it was my first full time job out of college, at a marketing firm.

I found out she was terminal in early July last year, and she passed two weeks later. After she passed, I took a week off. My father passed away when I was younger so as a 26 year old I was left to manage the estate and pack up the condo within the month. I took two days to mourn then got down to the business of clearing out a condo. After a year I developed a work comp injury, announced it, and was laid off ten minutes later illegal, but I consulted attourneys and it seemed that suing them would have been near impossible.

That week they claim back is worth much more to them than it could ever be in productivity. All I can tell you is be smart with your money and put yourself first. Financial security allows you the ability to have options. Well, I am a contractor…so if I wanted to take a month off of work, it would be on my own dime since I do not get any vacation time. At my last job, which I was layed-off from, I had to be at the company for about a year to accumulate my 5 days of vacation time no additional sick time , which would then roll over into the next year. You usually do not get paid for holidays either until you have been with the company for at least a few months, and paid vacation days as well as sick days are considered a privilege that you have to earn here in the US.

Health Insurance is also very expensive, and the employer does not cover a very large percentage of the monthly rate if you decide to go with their plan I have no insurance , so that can hinder your ability to take time off. What do you do if you are self-employed with a small company 2 bay auto repair centre — my partner and myself are techs and a secretary?

The pivot point for me was a couple of years ago. I was leaving a large company to join another one. My wife asked me to see if I could take some time off in between, and as things turned out, I was able to take 90 days. But soon I was living a different life, at a different pace, very little screen-time, lots of family time.

I felt free to be me like at no other time in my adult life. Those white chevrons on my feet became a symbol to me of what I had learned. Even today, after two years with the new company, I still wear flip-flops outside on weekends to maintain my touchstone. And this summer, I did a very un-American thing — I took two weeks off, locked the office smart phone in the hotel safe, and enjoyed myself thoroughly. I took another device to be able to post photos to FB etc. I see myself working for a long time, mainly because I enjoy making a contribution and helping people to reach their potential.

Any employer who insists otherwise is not someone you should work for — at least not for very long. At the end of the day, life is a collection of social contracts. Your spouse, your family, your employer, your customers, your friends — all have some legitimate claim on you, your heart, your mind and your time. Over people died because of it. The American way is to stress, work, stress, work, and see who can be the first one in and last one out, while America is close to last in productivity when compared to other countries. Everyday is an attempt to keep the job that provides food and shelter to your family.

When it comes to vacation and understanding one can have a job, be productive and still take time off the United States is far behind. In the Anglo-American culture, a person identifies with, is defined by, and unfortunately judged upon by what they do. This is a part of the protestant work ethic that many others have already commented about. It seems especially strong on the east coast. If we take a whole month off to just relax and do nothing of great significance, we lose that fundamental element of our identity, giving way to an internal sense and external perception of uselessness.

Sorry for the continued rant, but while many people may be justified in their paranoia of job security, thereby afraid to take time off from work, the fault may not always be the employer or the economy. America and American people are extremely competitive in everything, especially in pursuing their own economic ends and even more so when jobs are scarce.

This does not equate with working the longest hours or taking the least vacation. Rather as opposed to simply going through the motions of the workday, as I know many of us myself included are often guilty of, demonstrate worth by high-quality work, innovation, and initiative. Unfortunately, most people cling to their power and hesitate to empower others in fear of their jobs as well.

Our culture and our fear of becoming obsolete will never allow Americans to take a decent vacation. As companies have become more mercenary and the only goal is to cut costs we all fear that if we are not missed we will be history. I just saw something about time off for the birth of a child for men and women.

I seems that America is behind on this too. People fear that their positions are in danger, while they are away. I, personally enjoy checking out of reality and taking in the environment around me and the new relaxed schedule. Thank you for this article. My husband and I quit our jobs in December and took all of off and took our 12 year old kids around the world. First, is it 25 work days not including weekends of vacation that one would receive?

That can equate to a full month off and still have 5 vacation days remaining for the rest of the year. The amount of vacation days differs from country to country generaly above 20 , but if we take the 25 then:. I wonder how smaller companies in Europe deal with the growing pains of not having enough people to cover someone when they decide to use their 30 days at once. How does an organization handle that? Additionally, it boggles my mind that American companies have not figured out that to have an engaged, productive workforce, they should consider the benefits they give their employees.