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Love Doing Life on Facebook. Thank you so much! I love ancient philosophy. She said, "You can make that happen. Love should be seen not as a feeling but as an enacted emotion. I also love the lead up to Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Her main task is to help carers make a decision about where frail relatives should live. This gives her the human contact that she loved in her banking career, but lost as she rose through the ranks. Although her hours can be unpredictable, she wants to stay in the care sector. After 17 years as a jobs adviser in a local benefits office, Alison Moore took voluntary redundancy — and a pay cut — to bring life and laughs to elderly people in a nearby care home.
Her work has already brought her a nomination for a national care award. Her career change has required a change in outlook.
And unlike last time, when guys revealed all the mistakes you were making, this time they're telling you all the things you're doing right. SO right. Four workers who switched to jobs in social care from other sectors – including banking and the forces – describe their experiences.
This sense of satisfaction and excitement about his work is not something Maden could have predicted when he left a series of factory jobs and a spell as an outward bound instructor to move into the care sector. He started off nine years ago as a personal assistant in a home, after a relative suggested that his skills as an outdoor pursuits instructor might be valued in a care setting. Since then he has progressed, via an activities coordinator post, to his current role as team manager in charge of three sheltered housing units for people with disabilities or challenging behaviour.
He now supervises 18 members of staff. Maybe any love in it. Too much stuff is made carelessly, thoughtlessly, and offers no real human benefit. If it has no meaning, happiness, purpose in it, how are you going to get any out of it?
It always comes from doing what loves. And it needs to be fed and nurtured by doing what loves you back, so you can be supported and held when you fail, not crushed and blamed. No one loves that way. Start with the last one.
Work your way back. Does what you do have any love in it? So go back to the beginning. Forget about what you love right now. What have you always loved? What moves you about all these things?
Just go that way. Your way has always been whispering to you. Now you know how to listen. Sign in Get started. It is when one person believes in another person and shows it. In Fiddler on the Roof , when Tevye asks Golde whether she loves him after a quarter century of marriage, her wry answer is exactly on point:. Of course it is possible to perform all sorts of duties for someone and feel little or nothing for them.
Love is not about being hired help. Love is not an obligation done with a cold soul. But neither is it a passion that expresses itself in cruelty, or one that does not express itself at all.
The feeling must be wedded to the deed. We would have a healthier conception of love if we understood that love, like parenting or friendship, is a feeling that expresses itself in action.